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by Ross Bannister Todd

www.ThinkPerfect.com

Sex is deeply embedded in our culture, not just the act of having sex but a lot goes in to what happens before sex.

We go to the gym to have a great body, we buy clothes that either show off our body or hide it, we groom it, pay the plastic surgeon to change things, do diets, hair cuts, hair removal, etc, this all has to do with looking good and looking attractive so we can attract a mate and or sex.

Many people only have friends that look like people they are attracted to, they don't even socialize with people that do not appear attractive to them.

For some people the chase is all there is. It motivates their entire life, yet some of these same people may not even admit this to themselves, or to anyone else. they are in denial about their motivation, they may even talk down sex, are sexaphobic or homophobic. Many homosexuals are homophobic because that is what the culture has taught them and they haven't seen through it yet.

We need sexual energy, it is an integral part of our life force. When we put it down, dislike it, make it wrong we are actually crippling ourselves. There is NOTHING BAD WITH OR ABOUT SEX.

Unless you are projecting your negative, judgmental energy onto sex and pretending that dark energy is coming from sex. Loving sex is rejuvenating, uplifting, energizing, orgasmic and healing. Unless you are guilting or judging yourself while you are having or after you have just had sex, which then taints your experience, makes sex unhealthy, changes the energy of sex and CAUSES disease. guilt puts holes in your immune system that allows disease to enter. It is not the sex that is dirty it is your thoughts, your mind, your intentions, what you are projecting onto sex.

People that have no guilt about sex seldom get any kind of sexual disease, even when they have sex with someone that has something.

'WE COME FROM SEX" as Osho point out in his book"SEX MATTERS". Our culture/society in the USA says that SEX IS BAD. If you believe something is bad and you do it anyway, it will make you sick. If you take a pill and believe it is bad, it will make you sick. Take the same pill and believe, trust, decide it is good for you and it will not make you sick. I have taught this to many clients who were getting sick from their HIV meds. As soon as they really decided their medicine was good, ok, was NOT poison they stopped getting sick in most cases.

Next time we ill look more at the role of Tantra and non-mental sex.

Love yourself first because if you don't you can't give love to anyone else - its not selfish your body needs it to be healthy.

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