IF SEX IS NOT FUN

IF SEX IS NO FUN by Ross Bannister Todd assisted by the Helpers If sex is not fun then there may be shame or guilt present in your body/mind. You may still be accepting shame [allowing your ego to shame you] and not realizing that you don't have to do that. It may have become so habitual for you that you don't even see that you are agreeing with it, again. You may have accepted this shame as a given for so long that you don't see that it is NO LONGER TRUE. This may be just one of the untrue emotions that you are keeping alive from your past that are shaping your current reality, your health or how you feel. If sex is bad or dirty (shame) and you do it anyway, it can't be fun, can't be a sensual celebration of your body, genitals, anus, mouth, lips, and spirit. It will tend to lessen or eliminate your orgasms. Some of you because of your up bringing or religion you do not allow yourself to enjoy sex but you still do it, crave it, and most likely suffer guilt after you have had sex, wanted sex, desired sex, or just fantasied about sex. There is nothing dirty about sex unless you believe there is. Sex has been given to us to enjoy, to recharge ourself with the revitalizing energy of sensual sexuality or sex. When two people who love themselves then share their sensual sexuality as an extension of that love with each other, orgasm can then become a gateway to the divine, loving orgasm can be communion with the divine. [this has nothing to do with organized religion] When sensual sexuality is used to make love is restores your chi/energy, heals your body, rejuvenates and refreshes you and gives you a DEEP SENSE OF SATISFACTION and completion. So much so that you may not even want to have or need to have sex again soon. copyright (C) by Ross Todd December 1, 2011 all right reserved